Your past and your present require fuel. Often the regrettable past is a bottom feeder. It will grow as long as you feed it and whatever you feed it; its not picky!! It just wants a place to hangout. Its only desire is to deny you peace, happiness and to rob you of your destiny. I don't encourage anyone to deny a regrettable event in life. But don't set a place for it at your dinner table. Don't hangout with it. Its desire is to deny you life. You gotta cut it off, redirect the fuel source. Give the fuel to someone or something you want to live and watch grown....