We are not born to be faithful. Faithfulness is learned. Good habits and bad habits are taught. Some times these hadits good and bad r learned by default. At other times mostly repeatable behavior is heard and observed over and over again. I watched my son numerous times wondering about certain behaviors and atitudes. I was surprised when he told me you do it. I wasn't surprised what I did but that he copied me and resolved dad did it so will I. That was scary for me.
Because I didn't want me. I wasn't trying to raise me another me. I wanted a 5 year old obedient child that did exactly what I told him. Believe it!!! I kept seeing me that had to change. Children manifest their environment.